High Value Woman and A Low Value Woman!

Let’s look at the definition of a high value woman and a low value woman as it pertains to dating and courtship.

A Low value woman:  It costs a man very little to get your cookie and you – he invests little in you, (in terms of time, money and effort) so therefore you are easy to walk away from – you are of low/no value.

A High value woman:  It costs a man a lot to get your cookie and you (in terms of time, money and effort) – he invests a lot in you so therefore you are very difficult to walk away from – you are of high value.

Time is one’s most valuable commodity, as the saying goes, ‘you can always make more money but you can’t make more time’.  If a man gives you his time it’s because he finds you worthy of it, a man will spend his money where his heart is and will put in the effort where he expects a return on his blood, sweat and tears.

High Value Woman

If you noticed in my definition, I said ‘your cookie’ FIRST and then ‘you’ second; because, often it’s the cookie that’s at the forefront of a man’s mind, be it conscious or subconscious.  Why? because men are visual creatures; by design they were made to procreate for a lifetime and women for a season.  The fact that a man wants to plant his seed is no secret!

A quality woman can be defined as having a great education, career, making bucks, doing things in the community, however from a man’s perspective she is not high value in a romantic context unless
she makes him ‘feel’ her worth.  So what is the main quality by which she does this?


In modern day we see the gap between masculine women and effeminate men becoming closer and closer. ‘I heard it say that women are becoming the men they want to marry!’  As if women could ever replace men! It’s our opposite energies that makes us so attractive to the other.  Yin and yan.

Feminine energy is essential to be perceived as a high value woman by a man.

As more women reside in their masculine energy they provide an opportunity, a platform as it were for high quality feminine women to stand out in the crowd and be oversubscribed by quality masculine men..

Just ONE  of the plethora of ways for a woman to stand in her femininity is to take care of her appearance.

The more you care about yourself, the more valuable you appear and the more you will appear as a great return on investment by a high quality man.

Important external indicators of self-care are personal hygiene, great skin and hair, make-up, feminine clothing.  However the most important is mindset! Then you will attract quality responses from men!

To find out more about changing mindsets, click the video link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f92uVT3kQ9o


  • Kay
    November 12, 2019 at 5:51 pm

    Great article… Very accurate and spot on.

  • Inyene
    December 29, 2019 at 9:52 am

    Another fantastic article from you, Valerie Campbell 🙂 I believe men need more reassurance from high-quality women so that they can use our feminine energy to their advantage. We over the years, high-quality women have helped their men to move forward and success faster.

  • The Esoteric Scribe
    October 3, 2021 at 3:04 am

    Not one lie was spoken here. Great to hear a woman define what being a high quality woman is.
    However, I would like to add that I find it counterproductive to view femininity as “opposite” to masculinity. I believe that femininity and masculinity are complimentary forces. For, the word(s) opposite or opposition suggests war.

    I delve into the concepts of manhood and masculinity on my Site, https://www.theesotericscribe.com

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